Saturday, October 31, 2009

How do I make the most of the (very little) time I have with workaholic boyfriend?

My boyfriend is a workaholic. When we%26#039;re together, he is attentive and wonderful. He calls everyday when he can%26#039;t see me because of work, and I am very much included in his long term plan, which is to quit working so much after he has paid off school loans and his house.



Because he%26#039;s so wonderful, I%26#039;ve made the decision to accept that I don%26#039;t get to see him even close to as much as I want to. But I still blow up sometimes when he cancels a date or leaves after only a few minutes together.



I know that if I can%26#039;t endure the long work hours, I have to break up with him. Since I%26#039;m not willing to do that, how can I maximize my time with him so that it%26#039;s a relationship of quality and not quantity? I hate making him feel guilty for working. But I%26#039;m finding it hard to strike a balance between communicating my feelings (anger that he%26#039;s not around) and letting it go so that the we can just have fun when we ARE together (rare as that is).



Any tips on how I can get past it?



How do I make the most of the (very little) time I have with workaholic boyfriend?

I know you want to spend time with your boyfriend and that its rough that he isn%26#039;t around all that much, but there%26#039;s no need to get upset with him over working. Think about couples where one of them is in the military... A lot of them go months without seeing each other, but yet they still make it work. He has financial commitments, and if you 2 are to stay together as long as you plan then it will work out better for you in the long run. He wont be in a pool of debt and will be able to live comfortably without working so much. When you guys are together just cherish the moment and remind yourself how lucky you are to have him by your side... when your not together just remind yourself that he%26#039;s putting a healthy foundation for both of your future lives together.



How do I make the most of the (very little) time I have with workaholic boyfriend?

I would just have fun, be yourself, and do things he likes.



How do I make the most of the (very little) time I have with workaholic boyfriend?

u should take time of and tlk 2 him. :)



How do I make the most of the (very little) time I have with workaholic boyfriend?

spend time together doing something fun and adventurous. that will make lasting memories that you can think back to when your apart.



How do I make the most of the (very little) time I have with workaholic boyfriend?

Work along with him...LOL!

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